End of Life grounding, planning and care especially for queers and their families

Touchstones’ services.

  • Holistic Support

    I offer non-medical holistic support at any point through life and the end of life journey. This varies and can take the form of emotional, spiritual, and/or practical care and planning. I offer tenderness, dialogue, resources and personal care for individuals and their circle of care.

    My goal is to support you in making informed decisions, often within hostile systems, in ways that feel right for you.

    As a doula I specialize in supporting your quality of life, exploring and celebrating legacy, encouraging reflection, intimacy, heart healing and connection. All towards whatever a good death means for you.

  • Practical and Personal

    How I might support you and your circle of care*

    Provide brave space to speak openly and frankly with you and your loved ones about dying

    Talk about creating an advance care directive

    Explore and celebrate the meaning of your life and legacy

    Discuss and support end-of-life care planning

    Develop a plan for how the space looks, feels and sounds

    Incorporate traditions or create new rituals to mark special moments

    Bring a focused and intuitive presence to the bedside

    Assist with physical and practical care to ease the burden on caregivers

    Provide respite for exhausted caregivers

    Explain the signs and symptoms of the dying process

    Process the emotions and experiences with you and your circle of care

    Support the spiritual practices of all involved

    Guide people through the early stages of grieving

    * modified from the International End of Life Doula Association

  • Tender Care

    More soon

  • Joy

    queer and joyful in existence

community

a good death

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